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Hi, I’m a mouthy whip-smart sub (and sometimes switch). I’ve been doing BDSM things for nine years. I am always learning, always growing, and always passionate about finding new ways to take my submission to the next level.

I believe being a submissive is about achieving excellence. There’s a lot more to it than just lying back and taking a flogging. A sub should be a responsive, enthusiastic, and active participant in power exchange.

This blog is about some of the lessons I’ve learned along the way.