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Hi, I’m a mouthy whip-smart sub (and sometimes switch). I’ve been doing BDSM things for nine years. I am always learning, always growing, and always passionate about finding new ways to take my submission to the next level.
I believe being a submissive is about achieving excellence. There’s a lot more to it than just lying back and taking a flogging. A sub should be a responsive, enthusiastic, and active participant in power exchange.
This blog is about some of the lessons I’ve learned along the way.
It’s a truism in the BDSM community to say that “the bottom has all the real power.” What is meant by that, is that whoever is receiving the… Read more “Who Has the Power?”
Rope is probably the most popular medium of erotic bondage, for good reason. It’s secure, versatile, beautiful. It provides a range of unique visuals and textures. It’s… Read more “Bondage without Rope: Part 1- Handcuffs”
A belated, highly personal reaction to the U.S. presidential election. When it comes to romantic partners, I love with submission. Submission feels hard right now, because love… Read more “Serving in Dystopia”